Seven Days

If you ask for my number I am under the impression that you are interested in talking to me, so I give it up. We may talk for few days, even meet up and go on a few dates, but I have an expiration date on your number being in my phone. I give you seven days from the last day of contact and then you get the boot. Why should you take up space in my phone when you have easily dismissed me? Seven whole days is a long time for you to get your mind together or for you go sow your oats (messing with every other brotha that happens to be in your phone). Why should I be left to wait when you made the decision to not tell me where things were going or how you were no longer interested? Its cool though, just don't get caught in your feelings when you come a ringing some time later and I treat you like a stranger.

'Seven whole days....I can't take it...I'd rather be on my own.' Toni Braxton

Get on my level....please 02242009a

I know there are a number of reasons for being single. One that I have found true today is that I may be a little too much for guys. I really think that my use of certain words and topics goes over people's head. I don't say this to be funny or to come of as conceited. My rationale is that I sometimes stump my friends and peers, why wouldn't I do the same to people who don't know the difference between their and there or your and you're? So I'll add to the list of what I look for in a partner, INTELLIGENCE.

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I know that we have all heard them, the means for which suitors try to impress/seduce others to take a peaked interest in them. In fact I have been (I know some of you all have also), but its when one is on the receiving end that one can truly see how pitiful these advances can be.

Por exemplar: As dude is tryna get to know me, it drops that I am a gamer. So when discussing his boredom compared to my entertainment with my 360 (I love you), it comes up that he hasn't played the game and would like for me to 'teach him'.

NIGGA, I take my games too seriously to be teaching you how to play, come with the skills so we can compete and go from there. Maybe I take my games to seriously, but then again...If we superimpose the situation in another realm, I would feel the same way about it all. Being that I'm versed in Japanese and anime/manga, I find it much more attractive if someone steps to me in saying that they like certain types of anime, can speak/write a bit, or have some concept of either of the two rather than asking if I can teach you or recommend some to you. It kinda blows the attraction level, albeit on a minimal scale.

Its just a pet peeve for me and my interests. I am more attracted to someone who shares the interests so we can speak intelligently than someone who is using them to get closer to me. Just be you and stop soliciting private tutor lessons!